Tori Reid

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Anxious Attachment: Why Understanding It Isn’t Enough, and What Actually Helps

Anxious attachment is a way of relating where closeness feels essential but never quite safe. It usually begins in early relationships and lives in the nervous system, which is why understanding it often isn’t enough to change it. Healing tends to happen through the body and through safe relationships, not insight alone. If you’ve found

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Somatic psychotherapy and mindfulness

10 Things I’ve Learned About Healing Emotional Pain

After over 10 years as a holistic therapist, I’ve had the privilege of working with countless bodies, hearts, and nervous systems. Along the way, I’ve discovered key truths about healing trauma and emotional imbalance that have also helped me heal my own emotional pain. 1. Trauma lives in the body Healing isn’t just about revisiting

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Somatic psychotherapy and mindfulness

Talk Therapy vs Somatic Therapy: What’s the Difference?

Talk therapy works mainly through conversation and insight. Somatic therapy also works with what you feel in your body in the moment, which can reach patterns that formed before we had words. What talk therapy offers Many people come to therapy expecting a traditional “talk therapy” approach where they share their story with a therapist

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